What I Really Learned At BlogHer ’10

So yesterday I told you about the 7 Random Things I Learned at BlogHer ’10. All kidding aside, here’s what I really learned at BlogHer ’10.

First, I need to write more. I need to write about what I’m passionate about. I need to write every day or most days whether it is blogging, journaling or creative writing of some sort. I need to just write and not worry about my own internal critic or what others will think of my writing. I need to believe that what I have to say is of value, that is important.

Second, I really want to use this blog to create a disability rights movement within mainstream feminism and there are a plethora of ways to start to do this.

  • Ask people to share their personal stories
  • Start petitions in support/protest of an issue
  • Use polls or surveys to gain or share information
  • Create a newsletter
  • Reach out to politicians and like-minded organizations
  • Document and research your issue. For example, Melissa Silverstein of Women and Hollywood documented and wrote about the lack of women in documentaries. The foreign press, especially in the UK, took notice and the issue started to get some attention.
  • Create relationships with other bloggers who care about your cause. The importance of this cannot be overstated.

Third, BlogHer attendees are very concerned about comments on their blogs. Several of the breakout sessions I attended on blogging and activism quickly turned into “How to Manage Negative Comments” sessions. Best advice: Remember that “people have issues” and

  1. Have a comments policy and stick to it
  2. No personal attacks
  3. Decide how you want to deal with inappropriate comments

Above all, I need to decide what my mission is as a blogger and stick to it. Do I want to my blog to be about disability rights and feminism or am I happy with the current mix of feminism, politics, disability rights and random other things? BlogHer showed me that if I really want to become a better blogger, writer and activist, I need to focus on the former, not the latter.

So this is what I learned at BlogHer ’10. Hopefully, you can take some of these lessons and apply them to your own blog. If you went to BlogHer, I’d love to hear what you took away from the conference. Please feel free to leave a comment below!

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